Dr. Mark Walling (Honors Thesis Advisor), Matt Calvert (Honors graduate), Dr. Steve Benton (Honors Program Director) |
Matt Calvert (photo by Christine Pappas) |
To read Matt's address, please click on the link below.
Fall 2015 Honors Graduation Address
by Matt Calvert
Four
and a half years ago I found myself lying on a gurney, being wheeled into an
operating room. I was to receive a liver transplant which was the only option
to treat a life-threatening condition. There was no guarantee that I would
survive this operation. I was scared.
Prior
to the operation that put me in the hospital I had made some bad decisions. I
dropped out of college the first time I went, which was 11 years ago. I floated
from low paying job to low paying job, and was only focused on having a good
time with my friends. I partied around and didn’t think much of college or what
would get me on track to a fulfilling or meaningful life. After being diagnosed
with a blood clot in my liver, I reevaluated who I was, and made choices that
would change the direction of my life.
And when my operation was successful, I made good on that
decision to live a more purposeful life. One of the steps I took to do that was
to continue my education by attending East Central University.
Now,
four years later, I’m here, with you all, lucky enough to share my story.
I have a 3.9 GPA and I’m graduating today with Departmental Honors, after
having successfully defended my Honors Thesis last week. The decisions I made
four years ago have paid off. And maybe more importantly than a diploma or
employment opportunities, my understanding of the world has grown, my beliefs
have been challenged, and my identity as an individual has greatly expanded.
I
have many people to thank for helping me along the way, people who have led me
to want more out of life and to be a better person.
I want to thank my teachers; Dr.
Janna Byrd, Lisa Sheffield, Dr. Marc Petrowsky, Dr. Steve Benton, and Dr. Mark
Walling. I want to thank my classmates for offering me new ideas and
challenges. But most of all I want to thank my family.
I’m
a child of Deaf adults. My parents are Deaf. They face challenges in this society
that most individuals don’t. I want to tell you how thankful and blessed I am
to have them, and how much I love them. My parents, Linda and Donald, and my
brother Brian have been the foundation of my life. They took care of me as they
raised me, and then they took care of me again when I was waiting for my liver
transplant. Without them, I wouldn’t be here. Without them, I might not have
survived. My family is here today, and I want to thank them in a special way for
all they have done not only for me but for everyone they have impacted in their
lives.
In
American Sign Language, this is the sign for “applause.” Mom, Dad and Brian, if
you would please stand up, everyone please join me in applauding my family in
their language. Thank you so much. I imagine that some of you may know someone who you think
has been making poor life decisions. Perhaps some of you feel that you’ve been
making bad decisions. I’m telling you my story because I’m standing here as
someone who did the same, and then made the choice to demand more of myself,
and to do something with this life that I once took for granted. You can make
that same choice. You can decide to do that right this moment. I told you about
my family because I want to remind you that you have people who love you and
care about you. This world is full of caring people. And when you make a
decision to take on a new challenge, you may also find, as I have that there
are people waiting to help you. And if you’re alone, it’s just a matter of
meeting these people. But they’re out there, the sort of people who will do
anything they can to help you. I hope that we will all choose to be those
people for each other.
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